Speaking

For over 20 years, I’ve had the privilege of speaking at FamilyLife’s marriage conferences and events across the globe—including women’s events, churches, and corporate gatherings. Whether it’s addressing myths about marriage, navigating grief, or encouraging faith and resilience, I speak from a place of lived experience, grounded faith, and a heart to see people flourish.

My style is honest, warm, and relatable—aimed at equipping and encouraging others in every season of life. I’ve spoken on a wide range of topics including communication, conflict, sex in marriage, motherhood, resilience, and walking well with Jesus and with others.

Prepared Talks

Here are topics I currently have prepared and ready to go:

  • Mum – Raising the Next Generations

  • Wife – A Biblical Perspective

  • Renewing Our Minds in Order to Flourish

  • Becoming Dynamically Adaptive

  • Living in Faith

  • Lies We Believe About Relationships

  • Handling Grief

  • Walking Well with Jesus

  • Walking Well with Others

  • Walking Well with Ourselves

While I’m happy to write talks tailored to specific themes or events,

these prepared messages can be more easily woven into my busy schedule.

If you're looking for a speaker who brings warmth, depth, and a genuine heart for people, I'd love to connect.

Quote from…

“As a dedicated presenter representing FamilyLife NZ, Nikki brings with her a wealth of knowledge and expertise garnered over three decades of passionately addressing the vital subjects of marriage and family. Her profound insights extend to the realms of relationships, emotional well-being, and mental wellness.

Nikki's presentations are marked by her ability to captivate her audience through the use of relatable personal anecdotes, an empathetic approach, and a deep understanding of the human experience. Her engaging style establishes a meaningful connection with those she speaks to.”